What is tantra in your life? What is not tantric?

[daka sirus]

To me, tantra is my mantra! It is my way of life, my spiritual reverence. It's every breath I take, the way I eat, the way I play, and the way I make love. It's a commitment to myself to not run and hide, to face my challenges so that I may learn, grow, and evolve! It's my reminder to choose love over fear.

What is not tantric? Anything that is stagnant or not open might not feel tantric, but it is. Those are just temporary conditions and therefore not real actualized things. Whatever it is that is clogged or shut, will well up, the pressure will build over time, and eventually the blockage will give way and the energy stopped will shoot forth with great force and style! Life is one big orgasm!!

[Rachel]

I am new to learning about Tantra in a formal way. But I have known that there was more to sex than society was telling me since I was a teenager. Way back then, society was telling me the only way to feel satisfied from sex is to have an orgasm. Why then, I wondered, did I have a fully-clothed, non-genital, make-out session with a boy that I liked a lot, and felt very satisfied, with no release, for the next 4 days? My answer now, is that I needed to connect to someone special more than I needed a release. More later.

[Rose Pistola]

Being fully present and in love with my life! Choosing to be intentional as much as possible and forgiving myself when I'm not. Engaging with the people around me compassionately and with my full being. Soaking in and appreciating how blessed I am! And mostly just having as much fun as possible...

[russdude]

You know it's sort of nice to read two laddys write this, because i view sex as not the main thing. In fact i actualy enjoy, make out/playing with more than sex...How ever as a guy i some time feel the need to make sure that my partner orgasm, or i am some how letting her down.